Friday, 2 December 2011

Where is Peace? Is There a Place Where You Can Find PEACE?


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Someone asked today
“Madam, where can I find peace?”
“Is there actually a place where you can find peace” I wanted to say but I ended up saying “your office is the most peaceful place on the earth, because here you are respected for your work and there is no one at the other end to continuously check on your actions”
“But then here there is no freedom” he said
“Freedom never brings in peace” I said
He was surprised and further asked “Why freedom does not bring in peace, I feel happy when I have the freedom to do what I want to do” yes, you have a point there, I said
But to me “Life means some discipline, you can’t go on doing things that you like, because what you like is not always the best thing to do, like I can’t smoke just because I want to experience how it tastes and feels and flaunt that attitude of a smoker. If I do it then I would be at the other side, struggling with my self conscience which does not agree with the idea of smoking, so that will ultimately break the equilibrium in my mind”
“So where can I find peace? I so very much need to be at peace” He said
“Peace comes from inside, change your attitude towards life and you will be peaceful” I said
“But how do I do it”
“Just accept things as they are, finding flaws in all that you look around will only make you feel irritated, just accept and you can be at peace” I said
Having said this I had to answer myself “Is it all that simple?”
Often times I have thought of going somewhere far away in search of peace but could not do it, may be because I could not gather the courage to untie all my bonds. After years of trying to find true peace at home, office or with friends, I feel I have failed in all my attempts and have realized “Life is shaky, it brings in more worries as you grow”
Accepting this fact was hard initially but then life has its ways to teach you how things go around, it took me longer and now I have grown to hate being at peace, I hate at every single peaceful moment I have with nothing to do on hand.
“Finding peace is so very complicated, attempt to find it and you learn to leave without it, it is just like that.”